From another sister RGS

I've always had such a restless spirit/soul. If I can't make things better, then I remove the bad from my life. The result, of course, has been two failed marriages.

But, I'm in such a good place right now and my life is peaceful and full of love. My children, of course, the grandkids, of course, but mostly, because I'm in charge of my life. If I make mistakes, and I have made many, then I know who to blame -- me.

I've worked hard, but everyone in our family are pluggers. We were raised that way. Today, I know that I'm going to be all right. I'm still working, of course, but my job is great, I'm challenged every day, I learn new things, I know I contribute in a very significant way to my company. Those are good things and I am grateful I can still contribute.

I don't recommend cutting out those things that are frustrating and painful, because, as you have all said, those things tend to pass, if we're lucky. Then, again hopefully, your familes are still whole and intact.

I'm just way too impatient, and value myself too much (maybe) to let someone, or something get the best of me. I tend to cut and run. But, you are all still married and have husbands that you love, who love you.

Female friendships are powerful. I hope you all have at least one girlfriend with whom you can share your good times and your not so good times. Family is forever binding, but the friendships we have had over the years are so nurturing and supportive.